Ears are not new. What’s new is channel proliferation, lost attentiveness, and the many new ways to listen. Listening has been reborn.
We don’t just listen in person any more. We can automate our listening (via Google Alerts for example, Chris Brogan’s famous post explains on “Bigger Ears” that really well [1], but we’ve advanced on so many fronts)
Listening / Conversations can be:
- Synchronous or asynchronous
- Dynamic, interactive and fast
- Slow, fragmented and spread across different channels
- Joined-in and abandoned by one of more people
- Anything in between
It may sound odd, but a single person can keep a conversation alive, nurturing it, building it, sharing it, fanning it. I know this only too well, he says smiling. Conversation can linger like smouldering camp fires. Perfect for sharing. Sitting around. Noodling. And the smoke signals can be read from miles away, well pretty much from anywhere around the globe. We live in one integrated village.
People don’t always say what they mean (I call this “listening between the lines”). You need to hone your skills to hear the real nuggets, to extract your best insights.
Today listening takes on many forms:
- real people in person face to face or via phone/video conferencing
- blogs & reviews (and the comment flow / link sharing via Facebook, LinkedIn etc) – for you and your competition blogs/products
- competitors and their conversations (You’ll only get a partial view, but you can listen in all the same)
- email, text messages, Facebook messages, Tweets & DM’s
- alerts [1]
- inbound SMS shortcode and other forms of polling (think American Idol voting)
- QR codes and other means of offline to online integtration
- voice mails or video mails
- video
I’m bound to have missed something.
We can also listen with our eyes. We can observe a whole gamut of information from a persons face [2] and the voice in your head.
But beyond visuals clues, we can ask harder questions, like
- What can’t you see?
- What’s stopped happening?
- What hasn’t happened yet?
That’s where the real gems are buried (or is it the bodies). For a Phd in listening you’ve got to work all the angles. Learn how do dig!
Conversations are a fluid concept that we all seem to know how to use. We’ve learned from repetition. Be smart – Rethink how your company listens – conversation won’t stop evolving.
Today, there are newer more subtle forms of listening, going beyond Google Analytics. The Business Intelligence component of social media is often overlooked. Perhaps you’ve not thought of it as listening. You can apply metrics and intelligence to almost all of these channels. There’s always something you can’t measure. And there’s always some startup working on fixing that. We live in a fast changing world.
Yes, you can even listen to how people watch video (that’s what HusTream does). You can learn how your videos are consumed. Video has it’s own unique challenges/philosophies. That’s not the topic of the post, but here’s a few questions to ponder:
- Are people watching or even really listening to your video? Is the sound turned down? Have they walked away? Are they busy doing something else? Know how to answers these questions?
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How well does your current video listen? Not well I’d dare to say. Google Analytics (or what ever you use), can’t do such a good job with video in general. It’s an architecture problem. If your video is architected to be linear, you are stuck.
With linear video, viewers can’t effectively fast-forward through video (and extract meaning). It’s a frustrating process for your viewer. Hence viewers abandon. It’s not like skimming text. Few online video-platforms can effectively track how it’s been consumed or enjoyed. Both viewer and provider experiences are broken.
For better listening try shorter videos. It’s a philosophical change that makes sense. Just like a conversation, split your video into small chunks. It makes for way better insight into how your content is consumed. You remove the need to skim.
We strongly believe each clip should be 45 seconds or less. Reality is not as simple as that, but that’s the highlight.
Why is this important? Have you asked about the relative cost/interaction across the different channels. How does Face to Face compare to a Call Center to a Video? When you realize your choices, you can formulate a listening policy – a strategy.
- How much does it cost you to engage in conversation?
- How much does it cost you to listen?
- Which is the most effective way to progress sales?
- Are you creating new leads by sharing conversations for many people to join in?
- Are you ready to manage your conversational mix across channels and drive down cost/interaction?
Conversations have changed to much.So have the economics. It’s a balancing exercise. In the short to medium term, you can reallocate time and resources differently to different channels.
- The first step is recognizing the change, the new channels/choices.
- The next step is to have a listening strategy – a listening policy.
Have you noticed “Conversation” is the Social Media metaphor of choice? Conversation spans all forms of communication or media – Radio, TV, Websites and Social Media. Then there’s conversations via Email, Voice Mail, SMS, Twitter, Facebook, Blogs & even Video and Video Messaging. While there are many ways to listen to, there’s a bigger change impacting business.
The way society perceives conversation has evolved. You can safely bet any new fangled gizmo you haven’t yet grasped, will be riding the social conversation wave. The big question is, have you adapted your business to truly leverage every dimension, every element of both conversation and listening?
To help you grasps the potential, I’d suggest a new way to think about listening. Try listening in three dimensions. Listening has gone social and you can be heard. Question is are you leveraging that as an asset or hiding and locking down your sales cycles like a old-school control freak?
Listening has been reinvented/repurposed. Are you listening in three dimensions? Are you listening and being listened to? Have you let go of control the conversation, in a good way?

So why should you care as a Business? Where’s the bottom line impact. Simple:
- Conversations lead to attention.
- Attention leads to understanding.
- Understanding leads to trust.
- Trust leads to sales.
- Done right sales leads happy customers and referrals.
- And listening is the glue that holds it all together. It’s the cycle of life.
So there’s nothing new there, right? Wrong!
We’ve risen from earlier times, living in caves, where we use to tell stories, go on hunting expeditions, drawing on walls (the old powerpoint). We we’re born social. That’s the essence of being human. Telling stories around a camp fire. Technology has taken us full circle, back to tribal behavior. Today much of our socialization and hunting is done online.
We hunt online for customers! Equally moderns man hunts online for products. Or to think of it another way Social Sales Cycles & Social purchasing Cycles. Is this news to you? Were certainly accustomed to sharing reviews on Amazon.
By really listening and letting others listen to your conversations, you can tap into the new economics of social selling and social sales cycles. You can he heard a litte or a lot. It’s your call. The question is will the control freak in you let go enough to benefit from the new economics?
Today Attention is our scarcest resource. We guard it well. For our own sanity we give Attention in very small measures.
Listening is the only way into your brain. Your prospects are no different, right! So how do you get them to listen? Well what makes you listen? A good conversation takes a least two listeners. You can lead by example. Begin by listening. Begin by asking questions:
- Don’t assume people need to know everything.
- Don’t assume people know nothing.
- Don’t assume people care.
What does that mean? It simply means match what you have to say to what your customer needs. Their needs, not yours. It’s their sales cycle, not yours. Too bad. You can complain or embrace the change. Where are you?
So conversations are good. Listening is good. They should go hand in hand, but the tongue is a poweful beast and holding it still can be real hard. Sadly listening often gets relegated to second place. Be smart and get it right and more people can listen to you and the same time as you listen to more people. The economics of listening have changed.
Let’s explore what listening in 3D really means.
So where now?
This post is connected to four other short hyper-linked posts. It’s more like a conversation. You are in control. It kinds of emulates conversational video, but via a blog post using text. You choose how and what you consume. So let’s explore, but on your terms. Where next? What do you want to know next? You choose?
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Intro – Tribes Share, Conversations Engage. Listening’s Social Dimensions – Channels x Attention x Reach
- Channels – Listening across all Media (opening your mind to listening everywhere)
- Attention – Listening to grow the time your audience spend watching/reading
- Reach/Sharing – Listening inside social sales cycles. Creating customer tornados via open sharing
- Dummies Guide to Creating Interactive Conversational Video from Linear Video Clips







